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Javanese beliefs and culture, hence, they can accommodate their husband’s wishes without losing their
               identity as a Javanese woman.

                       Overall,  the  Javanese  Macak  values  may  be  used  in  French  society,  since  the beauty of  both
               Javanese and French women were highlighted by their natural and light makeup skin (Morris and Nichols,
               2013). As a result, JWs had no trouble in applying the Macak values from Java. In fact, they continue to
               improve their appearance in accordance with the fashion and styles of French women, which is quite
               fashionable and trendy. This is also consistent with the desires of French spouses who want their wives to
               be fashionable while remaining committed to Javanese values. Although they were married to French
               locals, they retained their roots in Javanese culture, which defined their essential identity, and continues
               to connect them with their origins (Yinger, 1986).
                       Migrating  can  cause  uprooting  from  one’s  culture  of  origin,  as  well  as  anxiety  because  of
               separation from something that has become an important identity. However, cultural uprooting, if it works,
               can be a blessing of freedom and survival (Bradatan, 2014). JWs did not feel inferior despite being a
               minority of immigrants, they can truly adapt to French society, particularly in terms of improving their
               appearance while retaining their identity. The JWs were happy to be Javanese, and they do not want to
               become French women. According to Raden Ngabehi Ranggawarsito's conception of Javanese women,
               which can be found in Serat Candrarini, written on behalf of Sri Susuhunan Pakubuwono IX in the form of
               a  tembang  macapat  to  Raden  Ngabehi Ranggawarsito  (Suryadi,  2019; Munir  2002),  Javanese  women
               should be good at dressing and taking care of her beauty. Furthermore, Darwin (2001) asserted that
               Javanese women are expected to be polite, to keep their health and beauty by consuming traditional jamu
               to satisfy their husband's needs. In terms of Macak values, the Javanese beauty concept also considers
               ngadibusono  and  ngadisaliro,  who  are  empan  papan,  as  reflected  in  the  Javanese  Palace’s  ten
               commandments (Nursalim, 2016). As in previous discussion, when it comes to beauty, JWs prefer to have
               natural look with light makeup. This is congruent with the husband's desire for the wife to appear natural
               without the use of excessive makeup, of French or Indonesian cosmetic products. It is also consistent with
               the natural makeup techniques of French women (Morris and Nichols, 2013). As a result, the value of
               Macak in daily life is correlated with French cosmetology methods with its natural and light makeup
               (Ollivier, 2003).

                       A study of intercultural marriages as mentioned by Dodd (1998) will reveal a theme surrounding
               the intervention of intercultural married couples in an effort to adjust to one another in dealing with
               marital problems in general and adaptation when facing problems related to culture. However, there were
               several cultural similarities as well as compromised cultures adopted among intercultural marriage couples
               (Puspowardhani, 2008). However, people around the world were highly creative in altering their physical
               appearance as a non-verbal symbol (Peoples and Bailey, 2014).

                       As Adler, Rodman, and Du Pré (2016) stated that clothing can be used to convey economic status,
               education, social status, moral standards, athletic ability and/or interests, belief. An important component of
               appearance was  the perception  of attractiveness  and judgments  regarding beauty, both of which are
               influenced  by culture (Samovar, Porter, McDaniel, and Roy, 2017). JWs interacted and communicated
               about  Macak  values  with  their  French  spouses  and  French  community  using  nonverbal  symbols,
               languages, and perspectives (Charon, 1979). Then JWs decoded by selecting the right word or nonverbal
               gesture to express their intention (Ting-Toomey and Dorjee, 2018). Furthermore, French locals encoded
               every  word,  nonverbal  gestures,  or  cues  into  the  understandable  meaning  of  the  message,  which  is


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